Amale Bouzlafa

Life is a journey, a journey filled with many paths that lead to unique destinations. It’s interesting to see how the roads we choose to take can vary so widely, and ultimately lead us to similar places. You can choose the easy route, with its smooth path and clear signs, or the harder one, filled with crazy roads, challenges, and unexpected turns. Each path has its own lessons, experiences, and rewards…

You might find yourself at a crossroads, thinking about which way to go. In your eyes there are two roads, the comfortable one, kind of boring but certain, and the other one kind of bumpy and the one that feels like jumping out of the cliff! Which one would you pick ?  The easy road offers comfort and predictability. It’s lined with familiar faces and well-known paths. Choosing this route can make the journey seem less frightening, and it makes it easier to navigate with fewer surprises. You know what to expect, and the risk is minimal. This path might represent a stable job, a traditional lifestyle, or following societal norms. It can be very fulfilling, providing a sense of security and peace of mind.

On the other hand, the harder road is challenging and unpredictable. It might be rough and winding, taking you through uncharted territories and testing your resilience. This path requires courage and determination. It’s for those who seek adventure, growth, and transformation. This route might represent pursuing your passion against all odds, starting your own business, or breaking free from traditional expectations to create your own and unique identity. While the challenges can be significant, the rewards can be life-changing, offering profound personal growth and a deep sense of accomplishment. 

A leap or a certitude ? Which one would you choose ? 

In my experience, I realized that there’s no right or wrong choice. Each path you take will lead you to experiences that will shape who you are. The easy road might bring you to a place of joy and stability, while the harder road might lead you to self-discovery and extraordinary achievements. I think it’s important to know that both roads can lead to fulfillment, happiness, and success, but in different ways…

My own journey has taken me down various roads, both easy and hard. I’ve learned that it’s not always the destination that matters most, but the journey itself. When we see it this way, we can easily understand that there is no destination… So where are we going ? Where are we trying to run ?  This simple way of thinking makes you more aware of the little things, the daily things, the small moments… The people you meet, the challenges you will face, and the lessons you will learn along the way are what truly bring fulfillment in life. 

Sometimes, the road you thought was easy turns out to be more difficult than expected. Life can be unpredictable, and even the best plans can have unexpected turns. It’s during these times that your resilience and ability to change are tested. Accepting the unknown and difficulties can help you grow and discover new opportunities. When faced with a difficult situation, remember that it is only a part of the journey and that every challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow. Ultimately, the destination is not as important as the journey. The experiences, people, and growth you gain  are the true treasures of life. You have the power to choose your path, and each decision shapes your unique story. Embrace the journey, whether it’s easy or hard, because every road you take is leading you to where you’re meant to be…

So, whether you find yourself on a smooth path or a crazy road, remember that all roads can lead to the same destination. It’s not about how easy or quick the journey is, but how rich the experiences are along the way. Life is a journey, and every path you choose is a part of the journey. Trust in your journey and know that you are always moving forward towards your unique destination…

Trusting it will bring some light to someone’s shadow,

Amale 💫💙