Amale Bouzlafa

Attraction can be deceptive.
Intensity feels like destiny — until you realize it’s just an emotional storm keeping you attached to the wrong people.

For years, I played the “everlasting savior.”
I could see wounds, pain, childhood trauma in people before they even spoke. And I thought it was my role to heal them.

It wasn’t.

Intensity without stability is not passion — it is a distraction.
It pulls you into cycles where you’re more therapist than partner.

The truth is simple but liberating:
you are not responsible for saving anyone.

You can love someone deeply and still let them carry their own demons.
You can care and still choose yourself.

Once you stop falling for emotional volatility, you start choosing peace.
And peace is where real love grows.

So ask yourself: are you choosing peace, or chasing intensity disguised as love?

Trusting it will bring some light to someone’s shadow,

Amale 💫💙